Comments for Rx4JOY Blog http://rx4joy.com/blog Access your own Prescription for Joy Wed, 11 Apr 2012 02:24:55 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 Comment on Releasing by Joanna Hackley Davis http://rx4joy.com/blog/2012/releasing/#comment-178 Joanna Hackley Davis Wed, 11 Apr 2012 02:24:55 +0000 http://rx4joy.com/blog/?p=430#comment-178 You are such a wise & wonderful blessing! Thank you & much Love, Love, Love to you! You are such a wise & wonderful blessing! Thank you & much Love, Love, Love to you!

]]> Comment on Releasing by Mary Clare Hubbell http://rx4joy.com/blog/2012/releasing/#comment-177 Mary Clare Hubbell Wed, 11 Apr 2012 02:21:01 +0000 http://rx4joy.com/blog/?p=430#comment-177 Dear Joanna: Great Blog. First real blog I have read. LOL Facebook is enough, but you intrigued me with your FB Blog tease...hehe Great article. I have experienced this "letting go" a lot in the last few years. When I was younger, I struggled to be the peace maker and ALWAYS try to make everyone happy. It goes way, way back. My Mother use to tell me that I was a trash can for all my friends troubles. Oh boy, she was right. Give it to me and I will fix it. LOL Boy, what a mess of DRAMA I lived in because of it. Now, I just release and let go when relationships do not work. I have found out that it is so much easier to not go into a long, drawn out try to fix it with people who have always brought grief and no joy. I am SOOOO happy to let go. I must admit, I still do have a touch of that guilt, but I know deep down it feels so right, that it probably is.! Thanks for your wisdom once again!!!! All my love, Mary Clare Dear Joanna: Great Blog. First real blog I have read. LOL Facebook is enough, but you intrigued me with your FB Blog tease…hehe Great article. I have experienced this “letting go” a lot in the last few years. When I was younger, I struggled to be the peace maker and ALWAYS try to make everyone happy. It goes way, way back. My Mother use to tell me that I was a trash can for all my friends troubles. Oh boy, she was right. Give it to me and I will fix it. LOL Boy, what a mess of DRAMA I lived in because of it. Now, I just release and let go when relationships do not work. I have found out that it is so much easier to not go into a long, drawn out try to fix it with people who have always brought grief and no joy. I am SOOOO happy to let go. I must admit, I still do have a touch of that guilt, but I know deep down it feels so right, that it probably is.! Thanks for your wisdom once again!!!! All my love, Mary Clare

]]> Comment on About by Karen http://rx4joy.com/blog/about/#comment-176 Karen Tue, 21 Feb 2012 02:50:15 +0000 http://rx4joy.com/blog/?page_id=373#comment-176 "Love is what we were born with. Fear is what we learned here." ~ Marianne Williamson “Love is what we were born with. Fear is what we learned here.” ~ Marianne Williamson

]]> Comment on Woe Despair and Irony on Me by Cinderella http://rx4joy.com/blog/2011/irony-on-me/#comment-175 Cinderella Sun, 04 Dec 2011 16:26:50 +0000 http://rx4joy.com/blog/?p=369#comment-175 True, Joanna. It is a challenge to rise above what we hear and see, and stay positive, keeping gently indifferent to the drama we migth otherwise participate in by being judgemental. True, Joanna.
It is a challenge to rise above what we hear and see, and stay positive, keeping gently indifferent to the drama we migth otherwise participate in by being judgemental.

]]> Comment on When panic serves a purpose by CNStarz http://rx4joy.com/blog/2011/when-panic-serves-a-purpose/#comment-174 CNStarz Mon, 14 Nov 2011 02:31:13 +0000 http://www.rx4joy.com/blog/?p=230#comment-174 Just went through the same situation in October. ::sigh:: One door closing... :) I'm glad you found it! Just went through the same situation in October. ::sigh:: One door closing… :) I’m glad you found it!

]]> Comment on Knowing when to walk away by CNStarz http://rx4joy.com/blog/2011/knowing-when-to-walk-away/#comment-173 CNStarz Mon, 14 Nov 2011 02:28:37 +0000 http://rx4joy.com/blog/?p=289#comment-173 I also have a friend in a disquieting situation and I stand back, discuss with husband and a close friend who also knows her and we wait. We left her with the comments that we would not be involved, but would be available if she needs us. All too often I have found that being decent to others could put me in a toxic situation that I was unwilling or unable to handle because of my own history. Discreetly stepping back in a loving manner and allowing others to live out their own destiny isn't easy because we are as objective of their situation as we are unaware of our own. (Clear as mud? Indeed.) I pray for my friend. When I see her I greet her with all the warmth and love that I can to reassure her that I meant what I said-I'll be there. And I pray that she will survive what she is living through. I miss her terribly though... I also have a friend in a disquieting situation and I stand back, discuss with husband and a close friend who also knows her and we wait. We left her with the comments that we would not be involved, but would be available if she needs us. All too often I have found that being decent to others could put me in a toxic situation that I was unwilling or unable to handle because of my own history. Discreetly stepping back in a loving manner and allowing others to live out their own destiny isn’t easy because we are as objective of their situation as we are unaware of our own. (Clear as mud? Indeed.)

I pray for my friend. When I see her I greet her with all the warmth and love that I can to reassure her that I meant what I said-I’ll be there. And I pray that she will survive what she is living through. I miss her terribly though…

]]> Comment on Fueled by Fear by Joanna Hackley Davis http://rx4joy.com/blog/2011/fueled-by-fear/#comment-172 Joanna Hackley Davis Mon, 14 Nov 2011 02:26:02 +0000 http://rx4joy.com/blog/?p=357#comment-172 Blessings to you in the journey! I love what you have added, for it shows your heart & soul, as does the CN Starz name you choose! FANTABULOUS!!! Much Love, Light, & Laughter to you! Thank you for your courage. You are lighting the way... Blessings to you in the journey! I love what you have added, for it shows your heart & soul, as does the CN Starz name you choose! FANTABULOUS!!! Much Love, Light, & Laughter to you! Thank you for your courage. You are lighting the way…

]]> Comment on Fueled by Fear by CNStarz http://rx4joy.com/blog/2011/fueled-by-fear/#comment-171 CNStarz Mon, 14 Nov 2011 02:18:54 +0000 http://rx4joy.com/blog/?p=357#comment-171 We all have our demons and abuse and bullying is rampant in society. It is more recognized and less tolerated because of those of us who choose/have chosen to say "ENOUGH". Living beyond abuse is, indeed, a learned skillset we need to hold close, and part of that is relaxing into the pain, releasing it, and realizing we are beyond it, finally. Once I acknowledged my own history, it had much less power to control and I found I could finally have decent relationships. Translating that into my workplace is something I'm still working on. :) Blessings! We all have our demons and abuse and bullying is rampant in society. It is more recognized and less tolerated because of those of us who choose/have chosen to say “ENOUGH”. Living beyond abuse is, indeed, a learned skillset we need to hold close, and part of that is relaxing into the pain, releasing it, and realizing we are beyond it, finally. Once I acknowledged my own history, it had much less power to control and I found I could finally have decent relationships. Translating that into my workplace is something I’m still working on. :) Blessings!

]]> Comment on Fueled by Fear by Joanna Hackley Davis http://rx4joy.com/blog/2011/fueled-by-fear/#comment-169 Joanna Hackley Davis Thu, 27 Oct 2011 16:01:05 +0000 http://rx4joy.com/blog/?p=357#comment-169 Dearest Laura, You are such a sweet and beautiful soul. Thank you for the blessings your words give me. Yes, the past is over, any balance due is paid. The creation of now and future is beauty, light, & love. Thank you so much for the balm your words spreads over my soul. I deeply appreciate you! Love, Light, Laughter, and ((hugs)), too!!! Dearest Laura,
You are such a sweet and beautiful soul. Thank you for the blessings your words give me. Yes, the past is over, any balance due is paid. The creation of now and future is beauty, light, & love.
Thank you so much for the balm your words spreads over my soul. I deeply appreciate you!
Love, Light, Laughter, and ((hugs)), too!!!

]]> Comment on Fueled by Fear by Cinderella http://rx4joy.com/blog/2011/fueled-by-fear/#comment-167 Cinderella Thu, 27 Oct 2011 14:59:23 +0000 http://rx4joy.com/blog/?p=357#comment-167 Oh Joanna, My heart goes out to you. Such savagery. Yes, both your step-father and Mother cooperated, and it is such a terrible way to have to live, even though it is your 'normal'. My empathy. Knowing you (before you incarnated) chose such a hard and painful path when young, doesn't really make it easier. It seems like there ought to be another way to have been given the lesson of learning courage and self-love in spite of cruelty, to learn to be different than those who raised you and wipe out that meanness by refusing to copy it. It is an emotional landfill at time, and you are letting the stored memories and hurts go so they lose their hold over you. You are not your parents. You have overcome, you are reaching the blessing God always intended for you. Fear begone. You allow monsters in your life no longer. You are love and light. Darkness is not allowed in your life anymore. You have the power to be YOU, reparented by you, shaped with kindness, loving awareness and wisdom. If there was any balancing of former actions in a past life to be done in this lifetime, you have done it and it is completed. ((hugs)) Oh Joanna,
My heart goes out to you. Such savagery. Yes, both your step-father and Mother cooperated, and it is such a terrible way to have to live, even though it is your ‘normal’. My empathy.

Knowing you (before you incarnated) chose such a hard and painful path when young, doesn’t really make it easier.

It seems like there ought to be another way to have been given the lesson of learning courage and self-love in spite of cruelty, to learn to be different than those who raised you and wipe out that meanness by refusing to copy it.

It is an emotional landfill at time, and you are letting the stored memories and hurts go so they lose their hold over you.
You are not your parents.
You have overcome, you are reaching the blessing God always intended for you.

Fear begone. You allow monsters in your life no longer.
You are love and light.
Darkness is not allowed in your life anymore.
You have the power to be YOU, reparented by you, shaped with kindness, loving awareness and wisdom.

If there was any balancing of former actions in a past life to be done in this lifetime, you have done it and it is completed.

((hugs))

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